Two of Them…


Ahh..father’s day.
I almost forgot about it though my family had just celebrated it yesterday at my Adik’s house.

Fathers…
Yes, i know many of them. But, closely i only know 2. Both of them are the loves of my life, my father and my hubby.

My father is a great father, no doubt about it. He taught us basic Islam, solat and Quran till we left the house. When he was young, he migrated from his kampung to the big city so that his kids will get better educations. And Alhamdulillah, all 10 of us went to universities and live succesfully.

When i was younger, i thought he was very ce’ngeh or garang, even all our orang kampung knew how garang he was. Some of his ex students still afraid of him even after they grew up and have families.  But when he got stroke in 1992, everything changed. From a garang and respected man, he became silent and soft hearted. He also eventually loss all his close friends either due to their time came or just because they have no more similarities with him (due to the stroke).

Now, it has been 18 years of having stroke, he is still smiling and excited whenever his children and grandchildren are visiting.  With his wheelchair and stick, slowly he will enlighten all his 36 grandchildren, kiss their heads and give them angpau.

At 84 years old, he never tired of his life though i know loneliness is killing him since mom passed away 5 years ago. But with solat, dua’ and Quran, he waits his time peacefully. Alhamdulillah, he never got bored or depressed as so many elderly nowadays.

May Allah gives the best for his life. May Allah gives him good health and peaceful heart and mind.

My darling hubby…

Too many things to write about him..because everything is so special about him.

One thing i love him as a father to my four beautiful kids is because he was always caring during all my pregnancies, always brave during all my deliveries and he was very patient during my confinements.
Not all husbands are willing to do that. Sacrifice their time, their exhaustion, look at all the blood during deliveries and lastly ‘berpuasa’ during tempoh berpantang. Some men even find another woman when their wives are pregnant or in confinement. Together during good times but not at difficult times. In other words, my darling hubby is very humble and not selfish when it comes to helping his wife.

My hubby is absolutely a great father. He is enthusiastic in parenting our kids and willing to learn and change. To him, his family is everything and he is willing to struggle and protect for his “Baiti Jannati”.

I love you my darling. Thank you for being such a wonderful father.

UMMUSAIF.COM
68000, Ampang.

12 thoughts on “Two of Them…

  1. Being a husband and a father are the one greatest achievement in my entire life. Both can never happened without you as my wife, and the mother to our beautiful kids. With all possible meaning of appreciation, thank you my dear!

    May Allah keep us in His Rahmah till the last breath!

  2. pabila Baitul Muslim menjadi tujuan..
    maka yang menghiasi sebuah rumah tangga adalah ketenangan dan mawaddah…
    ^ ^

  3. kak Dr, Muna
    sy mungkin beristerikan doc
    sy fhm ttg kesibukan & masa
    sy x mungkin sehebat abusaif

    sy cuma berkelulusan dip. dlm satu disiplin kejuruteraan
    skrg bakal mertua sy meragui kemampuan sy utk ‘bersama’ anaknya
    sy mohon tips & doa dari akak

    • Salam,
      masa abu saif mahu berkahwin dgn saya juga dia seorang ‘no body’. beliau belum bekerja, malah semasa ingin bertunang juga beliau masih belum graduate. Keluarga saya juga meragui masa hadapannya. Namun, dengan berkat keberanian, kecekalan, ketenangan, kematangan kami, kami mampu membuktikan kepada mereka, kami mampu melakukannya.

      Kami tidak pernah melatah atau berkasar. Dengan hanya sepucuk surat sepanjang 8 muka surat, saya berjaya menenangkan ayahanda saya. Berkat doa, solat dan juga masa, semuanya membantu dan memainkan peranan.

      Jangan mengalah sebelum kalah!

  4. terima kasih kak Dr.Muna
    calon saya sorg ank yatim sejak usia 8 tahun.
    ibunyalah membanting tulang membesarkan dia dan adiknya

    ketiadaan kasih sorg ‘suami & ayah’ dlm keluarga tersebut bnyk
    mempengaruhi kehidupan mrk.

    sy bekerja di bumi borneo. jrg2 sekali sy plg kg halaman
    jika kplgn sy tanpa ziarah, rajuk akn berlaku.
    takdir, kali terakhr sy plg kg hlmn sy tdk mmpu menziarah mrk ats
    pelbagai urusn keluarga dan tggjwb lain sbgi ank lelaki sulung, tambahan pula larangan ibu sy agar
    tidak ‘berdating’ sblm waktunya.

    sy telah di anggap lelaki yg ‘trllu’ mgutamakan keluarga sendiri
    dan pelbagai kemampuan sy mula dipersoalkan shgga urusan kewangan.

    buntu memujuk bakal mertua, sy teruskan solat hajat & istikharoh.
    sy ketandusan usaha. mungkin mggu depan sy akn ‘terbang’ mengadap bakal mertua
    ntah apalah yg harus sy katakan, sy cuma menyayangi mereka mengikut kemampuan sy sbgi hamba.

  5. semoga kita semua bahagia di bawah rahmatNYA.saya mula tertarik dengan kehebatan kuarga ummusaif…insyaallah akan saya jadikan contoh utk kehidupan kami sekuarga…..apatah lg saya masih bnyk kelemahan sebagai ibu dan isteri…haraplah sudi kiranya ummusaif berkongsi lebih bnyk tentang hal2 kekeluargaan

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